On My Bookshelf
Two things inspired this post today.
The first ... I just read a passionate tirade from a person who disliked another's home. A lot, as a matter of fact. It surprised me. No kind words uttered. Maybe it's the southern girl in me, but if I say something negative, I figure it's only good manners to find something positive to share, too. As a field editor, I can honestly say that while I don't always "click" with some of the homes I see, I can almost always find something I like. For instance, I like when people are proud of their homes. I like it when they share ideas (even if I don't relate to them). And I like when people celebrate their own individual style. Like these ladies:
This living room belongs to Ella King Torrey, president
of San Francisco Art Institute.
You may or may not "click," as I say, with the room above. But don't you love that this person lives her life in ways that make her happy? The second inspiration for today's post is a book by Chris Casson Madden, titled "Room of Her Own: Women's Personal Spaces
".
Can you guess? This room belongs to Victoria MacKenzie-Childs.
You might be familiar with this designer's dishware and furniture.
(sorry it's a bit fuzzy. where's my tripod?!)
I enjoy this book -- so much so that it inspired this series of posts:
I loved being invited into fellow bloggers' spaces. I may try to begin it again. What do you think? That's also what I like about this book, getting to peek into personal spaces of such people as Oprah Winfrey, Ali McGraw, Bunny Williams, Dr. Maya Angelou, Faith Popcorn,Adrienne Vittadini and these women (+ others):
Brazilian actress, singer and translator Denise Dummont lives
in NYC. Her apartment, which she shares
with her film-director husband and children, overlooks the East River.
At home with Hollywood Correspondent Chantel Westerman.
Charlotte Moss, designer, author and retailer, wanted a
room she could call her own. She took an extra guest room and
transformed it into a space that called to her.
The home office of Helen Ballard Weeks, founder of
Ballard Designs.
This room belongs to Deborah Johnson, a buyer
for the Afro-American Historical and Cultural Museum
in Philadelphia.
A vignette of a room belonging to Anna Strasberg, an
actress and widow of the founder of the NY Actor's Studio.
Her apartment overlooks Central Park in NYC.
A room in a weekend cottage belonging
to Futurist Faith Popcorn.
By the way, I don't always stick to my southern girl "say-something-nice-too philosophy.
I stick to my guns when supporting civil rights, humanitarian causes
. . . I think that's the time to embark on a passionate tirade -- when true injustices occur.















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Oh I so agree. I would hope we would all dance to our own drummer and love where we live. It need to be personal. How sad for someone to be negative about someone's space. Great pictures that you are showing. Super inspiration from them all. Hugs, Marty
Hi Susan,
You may want to go and get a coffee as I plan to be here waffling on for a few minutes!!! You know, I think we've all read about a reveal and thought Na, not my taste but I'm with you, I like to think I could pick something from it and say...'well, that's a nice fabric'. I mean, if I had a blog and I put myself out there I would like to think it would make a connection with SOMEONE!! Usually, if I don't personally like it, I don't comment.....I also don't pretend and rave on in a comment left. Somehow I think that is worse, to pretend...
I'm so glad you have shown the pictures above of rooms that other people live in...as the last couple of days I have wondered how much is enough? Have I gone overboard with having too many accessories out? I would hate for it too look too forced. Like the other day for instance, I went into my favourite interior shop and sitting on her counter was a leather (made from beautiful old leather and so soft, with all the cracks and things you can't fake) tortoise!! He was so cute and made into a door stop. My youngest daughter was with me at the time fell in love with him too and yes, he came home with us. Whenever, I look at him I love him, (and he's so cute he's almost life like) but my husband hasn't seen him yet and I know he will think I have taken leave of my senses. I know the tortoise sounds tacky, but he really isn't. The owner sold two in a matter of hours and this was the second lot into the shop. My point is this, I am agonising over whether to keep what I have or get rid of at least half of it. Do I have bare space on furniture like sideboards, with only a plant and a lamp for instance?? I have a bookcase in the passage, do I get rid of half and have bare shelves???? We obviously have furniture, but not a lot in every room. I'm not into frou frou and clutter and not into themes, like a collection of ceramic green frogs rowing a boat and smoking a pipe. (Yes, sad but true, I have seen horrible things like this in people's homes) I like to think that what I have is tasteful but sometimes I think it doesn't look polished enough as though a budding designer lives here??? The pictures today really resonated with me, 'cause the spaces are so personal but I think there is a certain polish to them as well, what do you think Susan?
Has there come a day with you when you bring something home you love but something has to be thrown out to make room for the new thing????
Thanks for sharing this post, and I've just caught up with the previous one as well and enjoyed that also. Have a great weekend.
Take care
Janine
XXOO
Tasmania, Australia
I find there to be only one truth in design -- that it is totally subjective. How else could the super successful with such different styles each be well respected (insert whose ever name you wish). My point? Who is anyone to judge another's personal space? I'd much rather live in a space that has my own signature, good, bad or ugly to some, than the look of someone else! And, most importantly, where have the manners gone?
Yep! I knew I liked you!! Why must people be so rude and negative sometimes? I agree, when it comes to such a personal thing as decorating, each to his own. Of course we all admire talent and design skill and taste, etc. but keep your ugly thoughts to yourself.
And about those bigger issues - humanitarian, animals, civil rights, etc. yes, stand firm, but still no need to be ugly about it. Thanks for letting me rant, Susan!
P.S. I LOVE the first room, the home of Ella King Torrey.....LOVE it!!!!
Hey Susan, this is a wonderful discussion and should be part of a class or lecture series for anyone entering a career dealing with the public and therefore needs be "customer service" oriented.
The same issues often arise with the way people dress or how they wear their hair. I am assuming that you read this negative assessment on a blog. I have found that those (blogs) that are the most critical, are often the ones that have the least amount of creative energy and tend to be followers of trends.
It is easy to scan and post pictures and comment...negatively. It is much harder to show original and individual work and let the world critique it!
Bravo again Susan! Keep these great posts coming....kelley ". 0 )
This blog post describes the whole reason I started my blog and my upcoming site. We're all unique-and you should live like you-not everybody else! Great post!
Susan,
Since everyone's time is so limited, I do not want to click on a blog to read a rant or tirade about design. Save it~ for what is more important- government, taxes joblessness,injustice etc. If you do not like the content cancel your subscription or don't check out the blog!!!! The rudest blogs have the least subscribers, because they are so lacking in content, originality, and civility.
Merry Christmas
Karen
Hi! I think I've struck a chord. I appreciate all the sincere and thoughtful comments! It takes some courage "to put yourself out there." I respect that....Thanks everyone. Enjoy a wonderful holiday season. Cheers, -susan
Absolutely wonderful. What a fabulous series -- personality through decoration. Great!
The only space I'm negative about is my own. For years I have drooled over the magazine covers and interiors and now photos on blogs. Some spaces may not resonate with me personally, but I always feel my dream home and furniture will never come to fruition. When these feelings overtake me, I try to remind myself of the more important things like the love of family and friends and being grateful for health and for what we do have instead of pining for more when others in the world have so little. I suppose it is a fine balance to create a home with spaces that fill you with joy and appeal to your aesthetic without it becoming obsessive. I tend to be somewhat obsessive about not wanting anyone to see my small home with it's odd layout until I can redeem it somehow -- or move, which makes my husband sad.
My apologies. But your blog can be quite provocative. Very through-provoking. Love the series you did on her personal spaces and hope you create a second edition.
Hi Chanteusevca! I like provocative! It's nice to combine serious with a little fun. Keeps a good balance and perspective. And the latter is something you definitely have; please always hold onto that. Thank you for taking the time to leave such a thoughtful comment. Have a wonderful holiday, -susan
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